Chris McKeon wrote:I have a Friend/Pilot wo says what We all feel to be. He says that He just loves to Fly. But when I bring up launching from a Mountain and having a Flight, hopefully a nice long Flight. Yes going on an XC Flight. His response tpo Flying XC is a dreadful one. But You are your spending time in the Air. My friend responds talking about launching from a Mountain and Flying XC as a Dirty thing. I told Him that: "You say that You just love to be up in the Air Flying" I responded by sayin: "You know You have the Mental attributes that an X-C Pilot should have to help enable Him or Her to Fly X-C routes". Yo just simply love to be up in the air Flying. For We have all been Flying X-C routes, When we are getting quite low, so low that We must consider that dreaded option This option is one that none of us want to consider, That is: "TO LAND!" I know I just typed a Four letter Cuss Word, "LAND". Boy I sure hope that I do not getting Banned for typing a Cuss word.
I have as many of You have been. I have been Flying an X-C route where I find Myself so low that I am able to see individual birds perched upon Tree Limbs. Then I would go into that Desperation Mode. I mean I would Scratch, Scratch, Scratch My way back up. when I was Flying , and I was of say 5 Miles from a road. It was time to stop looking at Birds Perched upon Tree-Limbs, and Climb back up. "BECAUSE I JUST LOVE TO FLY!"
I'm not sure about your friend, but I'll give you my own perspective on XC.
First, I think everyone should pursue the kinds of flying that they enjoy. If you love flying XC (cross country), then that's what you should pursue. There's no need to argue about whether you prefer Ginger or Mary Ann. Find what you like and pursue it.
Now for me, I just like being in the air. So I make choices to maximize my time in the air on any given flight. So I tend to stay where I find the most reliable sources of lift. I use the rule "never leave lift to find lift", and I hear myself repeating that when I'm tempted to stray.
Now I also understand boredom and the desire to push yourself. But pushing limits means that you will sometimes bump into those limits (literally). That's a risk that I don't feel the need to push. So rather than looking longingly at where I might want to be, I try to appreciate where I already am. It's a little bit of "Love the one you're with" applied to lift.

Now there is another aspect of XC flying that also deserves some discussion, and that's the danger of not having a suitable landing zone when you need one. But I'll pass on that discussion for now other than to say that I like knowing that I have a safe landing area within the glide limits of my glider.